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Programmes / On Their Side
On Their Side · School · UK edition
Walk into the school meeting knowing your rights.
UK edition. What the law says in England, how the SEND system and EHCPs work, and how to communicate with school so things actually change.
$47
Start with the book and your own report. Add the toolkit and the lessons whenever you're ready: the complete On Their Side comes to $111.
Not sure yet? Take the free check.Twelve questions, about three minutes. See which parts of school advocacy to work on first.Sound familiar?
- School says "they're fine here", then you get the fallout at home.
- You've been told to wait, again, and you don't know if you have to.
- The EHCP process feels designed to wear you down.
- Letters and emails disappear, and meetings end with nothing written down.
Your report
Start with a report about your family
Every family is different, so On Their Side begins with your child and your home.
- Answer 30 questions about your home and your child. It takes about ten minutes.
- Get a report written about your answers: what's already working, your two best starting points, and a plan for the next two weeks.
- It points you to the lessons and printables that matter most for you, so you don't have to work through everything.
- Take it again in a few weeks and see what's changed. The retake comes with the lessons.
You can start free. The 3-minute check shows your first two starting points straight away, on screen. The full written report comes with the programme.
Example
Your report · On Their Side
Your starting points: the classroom and support in place.
This week: one small change, chosen from your own answers, with the lesson and printable that go with it.
What's actually going on
You're not asking for favours. You're asking a school to meet duties it already has under the Equality Act and the SEND Code of Practice. Parents who know the framework, keep a clear file and put requests in writing get further, faster. This programme gives you all three.
Start your advocacy file
Make one folder, paper or digital, for every letter, email, report and meeting note about your child's school support. Write the date on everything. It's the single most useful thing you can bring to a meeting.
Free to use tonight. It's one idea from the programme.
How the programme works
Assess
Thirty questions about your home and your child. About ten minutes.
Read your report
Written about your answers: what's working, where to start, and a two-week plan.
Learn
Short lessons with the neuroscience in plain English.
Make the changes
Printables and exercises for your own home.
Reassess
Take the assessment again and see the difference.
What's inside
Start with the book and your report. Add the toolkit and the lessons when you're ready, straight after checkout in one click or later from your account.
The programme
$47
The book and your report
- On Their Side: the book (PDF)
- The 30-question assessment
- Your written report: what's working, your two best starting points and a two-week plan
- The Lighter Load Start Here roadmap
Add the toolkit
+ $27
Toolkit and printables
- The quick start guide: one sheet, three changes
- The toolkit: fridge pages and worksheets
- EHCP navigation guide
- EHCP meeting preparation
- School letter templates
- School meeting preparation guide
- SEND rights summary
- Exclusion: know your rights
Add the lessons
+ $37
Lessons and the retake
- Your legal rights, in plain English
- Navigating the SEND system and the EHCP process
- Communicating with school so requests are recorded and acted on
- Building your advocacy file
- When things go wrong: complaints, appeals and exclusions
- The retake, to see what has changed
All three together is the complete On Their Side: $111. Or get all eight programmes, complete, in The Lighter Load for $297 (launch price), with what you've paid here taken off.
About Zoe
“Every environment either supports a child's brain or drains it. Most homes drain it, not because anyone got it wrong, but because nobody designed them for that child's brain at all.”
Zoe Aspinall MSc is a SEND specialist teacher and a SEND parent, with 30 years' experience in classrooms, school leadership and alternative provision, in the UK and internationally. She holds an MSc in Applied Neuroscience from King's College London, and developed the Ecological Inclusion Framework by bringing together research from neuroscience, psychology, communication and environmental design. Every NeuroInclusive programme is built on it, and turns it into practical changes you can make at home this week.
Zoe is the author of Designing Homes for All Brains, which sets out the Ecological Inclusion Framework for parents and carers. The programmes put it into practice, one part of family life at a time.
MSc Applied Neuroscience (King's College London) · PGCE · PGCert · BA (Hons)
30-day refund, no questions
If it doesn't help your family, email us within 30 days and we'll refund you in full. Anything you've downloaded is yours to keep.
Questions parents ask
Does my child need a diagnosis?
No. The programmes are about the environment around your child, so they're useful whether you have a diagnosis, are on a waiting list, or just know your child's brain works differently.
How is it delivered?
Online, in your own time. You sign in, take the programme's assessment, read your report and download the book. If you add the toolkit or the lessons, they appear in the same place. You can start the same evening, then work through the rest at your own pace.
Is it only for autism or ADHD?
No. It's for any child whose nervous system finds everyday life harder: autistic, ADHD, sensory differences, anxiety, or no label at all. The assessment looks at what your child finds hard, whatever the reason.
What ages is it for?
The ideas work at any age, from little ones to teenagers. Where things look different at different ages, the lessons and printables say so, and the assessment is about your child as they are now.
How long do I have access?
It's yours to keep. Everything you buy stays in your account, and everything you download is yours. Revisit it as your child grows.
Is this therapy or medical advice?
No. It's practical education for parents, grounded in neuroscience. It doesn't replace your doctor or any of the professionals working with your child, and it works well alongside them.
What if it isn't right for us?
Email admin@neuroinclusive.uk within 30 days and we'll refund you in full.
On Their Side
The book and your own report, yours to keep. Add the toolkit and the lessons whenever you're ready.
$47
Or all eight programmes, complete, in The Lighter Load for $297 (launch price).
Not sure yet? Take the free 3-minute check for this programme, or the overall assessment if you don't know which area to start with.
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