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Easier Together · Social life

Friendship on their terms, not everyone else's.

Shape the social side of family life so your child can take part in it, from playdates and parties to brothers, sisters and grandparents.

$47

Start with the book and your own report. Add the toolkit and the lessons whenever you're ready: the complete Easier Together comes to $111.

Not sure yet? Take the free check.Twelve questions, about three minutes. See which parts of social life and relationships to work on first.

Sound familiar?

  • Playdates start well and end in tears, usually theirs.
  • Their brother or sister feels the house revolves around someone else.
  • Parties and family gatherings are dreaded for days beforehand.
  • Relatives say they just need a firmer hand.

Your report

Start with a report about your family

Every family is different, so Easier Together begins with your child and your home.

  1. Answer 30 questions about your home and your child. It takes about ten minutes.
  2. Get a report written about your answers: what's already working, your two best starting points, and a plan for the next two weeks.
  3. It points you to the lessons and printables that matter most for you, so you don't have to work through everything.
  4. Take it again in a few weeks and see what's changed. The retake comes with the lessons.

You can start free. The 3-minute check shows your first two starting points straight away, on screen. The full written report comes with the programme.

Example

Your report · Easier Together

  • Brothers and sisters
  • Wider family
  • Playdates
  • Parties and events
  • Out in public
  • Social confidence

Your starting points: brothers and sisters and parties and events.

This week: one small change, chosen from your own answers, with the lesson and printable that go with it.

An example of the layout. Your report is written from your own answers.

What's actually going on

Social difficulty is not the same as not wanting friends. Many neurodivergent children connect best one-to-one, side by side, around a shared interest, for a set amount of time. The aim isn't to train them to endure the standard format. It's to design formats they can succeed in, and to support the rest of the family while you do it.

Plan the exit before the visit

Before the next playdate or family visit, agree with your child how long it will last and what they can do if it gets too much. Knowing there's a way out often makes staying easier.

Free to use tonight. It's one idea from the programme.

How the programme works

  1. Assess

    Thirty questions about your home and your child. About ten minutes.

  2. Read your report

    Written about your answers: what's working, where to start, and a two-week plan.

  3. Learn

    Short lessons with the neuroscience in plain English.

  4. Make the changes

    Printables and exercises for your own home.

  5. Reassess

    Take the assessment again and see the difference.

What's inside

Start with the book and your report. Add the toolkit and the lessons when you're ready, straight after checkout in one click or later from your account.

The programme

$47

The book and your report

  • Easier Together: the book (PDF)
  • The 30-question assessment
  • Your written report: what's working, your two best starting points and a two-week plan
  • The Lighter Load Start Here roadmap

Add the toolkit

+ $27

Toolkit and printables

  • The quick start guide: one sheet, three changes
  • The toolkit: fridge pages and worksheets
  • Playdate planning template
  • Sibling support guide
  • Trigger tracker
  • Child profile template

Add the lessons

+ $37

Lessons and the retake

  • Social ecology, not social skills
  • Designing social success: format, length and the exit plan
  • Siblings: the hidden load, and how to support them
  • A one-week trigger tracker for social situations
  • Quick wins you can make today
  • The retake, to see what has changed

All three together is the complete Easier Together: $111. Or get all eight programmes, complete, in The Lighter Load for $297 (launch price), with what you've paid here taken off.

Zoe Aspinall

About Zoe

“Every environment either supports a child's brain or drains it. Most homes drain it, not because anyone got it wrong, but because nobody designed them for that child's brain at all.”

Zoe Aspinall MSc is a SEND specialist teacher and a SEND parent, with 30 years' experience in classrooms, school leadership and alternative provision, in the UK and internationally. She holds an MSc in Applied Neuroscience from King's College London, and developed the Ecological Inclusion Framework by bringing together research from neuroscience, psychology, communication and environmental design. Every NeuroInclusive programme is built on it, and turns it into practical changes you can make at home this week.

Cover of Designing Homes for All Brains by Zoe Aspinall

Zoe is the author of Designing Homes for All Brains, which sets out the Ecological Inclusion Framework for parents and carers. The programmes put it into practice, one part of family life at a time.

MSc Applied Neuroscience (King's College London) · PGCE · PGCert · BA (Hons)

More about Zoe

30-day refund, no questions

If it doesn't help your family, email us within 30 days and we'll refund you in full. Anything you've downloaded is yours to keep.

Questions parents ask

Does my child need a diagnosis?

No. The programmes are about the environment around your child, so they're useful whether you have a diagnosis, are on a waiting list, or just know your child's brain works differently.

How is it delivered?

Online, in your own time. You sign in, take the programme's assessment, read your report and download the book. If you add the toolkit or the lessons, they appear in the same place. You can start the same evening, then work through the rest at your own pace.

Is it only for autism or ADHD?

No. It's for any child whose nervous system finds everyday life harder: autistic, ADHD, sensory differences, anxiety, or no label at all. The assessment looks at what your child finds hard, whatever the reason.

What ages is it for?

The ideas work at any age, from little ones to teenagers. Where things look different at different ages, the lessons and printables say so, and the assessment is about your child as they are now.

How long do I have access?

It's yours to keep. Everything you buy stays in your account, and everything you download is yours. Revisit it as your child grows.

Is this therapy or medical advice?

No. It's practical education for parents, grounded in neuroscience. It doesn't replace your doctor or any of the professionals working with your child, and it works well alongside them.

What if it isn't right for us?

Email admin@neuroinclusive.uk within 30 days and we'll refund you in full.

Easier Together

The book and your own report, yours to keep. Add the toolkit and the lessons whenever you're ready.

$47

Or all eight programmes, complete, in The Lighter Load for $297 (launch price).

Not sure yet? Take the free 3-minute check for this programme, or the overall assessment if you don't know which area to start with.

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